Are you a Pansexual OR a Polysexual?

When we say that we are LESBIANS... we have to know all the right terms, styles, the way it's said and so on and so forth. So many of people say that they are Les as simple as it can be, but they really don't have any idea how broad this spectrum is.

As I had mentioned before, there are different types of Lesbians, now just for some information, there are two different MAIN SEXUALITY. Making you confused? I believe so. Anyway here is the simplest explanation to it. And hope you can judge yourself after.

1. A pansexual (pan meaning "all"), in terms of sexual orientation, is someone with the capacity to be attracted to someone regardless of their sex, including those who may be transgendered/transsexual/butch/dykes/gays/femmes/soft-butch.

2. A polysexual (poly meaning "many"), in terms of sexual orientation, is someone with the capacity to be attracted to many genders, but not necessarily all of them, dykes/butch/gays/femmes/soft-butch but never on transgender and transsexual.

There you have it... now we can say that it ain't easy to be a real Lesbian. It ain't just for fun to be one and definitely it ain't because it's a hip to be one. If ever you're attracted to men in any ways, then you're BIsexual... you can never say you're a LESbian. NEVER.

How do lesbian have sex? Straight people ask...

PLEASE NOTE THAT:

Your tongue and fingers can do everything. Toys can add to the fun, but are not necessary.

• Oral sex to one another


• Preform oral sex at the same time with each other in the '69' position.


• Scissoring, where they touch their genitals together and or rub them.


• Strap-on sex, where a harness equipped with a dilldo is worn by one woman and she penetrates the vagina, anus, or both.


• There are however several other methods which facilitate non-sex aid love making such as scissoring/tribadism, mutual masturbation and oral sex.


• You don't need to strap on a penis. If you're really good all you need is your tongue and fingers. At least most lesbians think it's better.


• Speaking from personal experience and as a lesbian, most lesbian couples enjoy a far more enriched sex life than most hetero couples due to the levels of intimacy attainable by women and a greater knowledge of how to satisfy someone of the same gender.


• There are however several other methods which facilitate non-sex aid love making such as scissoring/tribadism, mutual masturbation and oral sex.
  

It's now up to you how you can imagine it... what straight couples do, lesbians can also do...

Is it fun being a lesbian?

>>>Lesbians don't do so just for the sake of fun! They are like the rest of us needing someone in their lives only their sexual orientation is different than heterosexuals.If you are a straight person then don't be pressured to try bisexuality or becoming a lesbian. Being gay is still a very controversial debate in society and it's not an easy road to take if you are a true lesbian.

Being a lesbian is very wonderful and fulfilling and beautiful and comforting and sensual and emotional. Between lesbians there can be radical equality, mystical unions, love, cuddling, sexuality, warmth, nurturing, support, humor, understanding, patience, healing, safety, community, female energy, and total intimacy.

Fulfilling and on more of an emotional level than being with a man if you are a true lesbian. I feel more connected and understood than I even did with a man. We also understand our little tiffs and attitudes and what it means more than the man. Plus the sex is great considering we have the same parts ;-). But I do have to say the public eye can be quite harsh. Public affection can't/won't happen in most places unless you want some horrid looks and comments. It can also be hard to come out to family, most likely not friends, and if your friends dismiss you, you don't need them. Being a lesbian is wonderful, if it the right way for you.

If you are a true lesbian and not a want to be it's better that with guys because a girl knows what a girl wants. It's nice to treat her the way you want to be treated, and sex can be more gratifying if the two are lesbians. She knows where all your sensitive spots are; she knows when you're in the mood, and women's ejaculation is so good.

You don't have the social rules like if you want sex you don't need to pretend that you'd love to invite someone to dinner...or you don't have to pretend with your other friends that you love the other person enough to make out and you can be you (if you are a lesbian! You experiment equality! It's awesome when you totally come out.

If two people are lesbians then their experiences can certainly be gratifying, but don't buy into the fact if you are straight and feel becoming a lesbian you will have a faultless relationship. Having lesbian friends they have been honest with me in saying that when two women are having their menses cycle it's like putting two Pitt Bulls into a sack! Lesbians are not much different than straight couples and have their problems and their arguments and some cheat on each other. Others fall out of love and move on. If you're straight remain straight and for those who are lesbians then try to find the right woman for a good relationship because sex isn't the number one factor in a good relationship and it's loyalty, honesty, staying power, and good communication skills just like straight people have to learn.

How do you know if you are a lesbian?

ANSWER:
If you find that you are only attracted to females in a sexual/romantic way, then you are most likely a lesbian. If being in a relationship with a female is something that feels right to you and being in a relationship with a male just is not right for you, then you are most likely a lesbian.

ANSWER:
Have you ever experimented with another girl before or is it just a physical attraction and not a sexual one? If it's only physical then you probably aren't I mean i find it to be perfectly natural to find someone of the same of the same sex attractive as long as you don't think of that person in a sexual manner. But if it's both sexual and physical then you might just be open-minded as long as you still are attracted to men. I hope i helped answer your question.

ANSWER:
If you enjoyed the lesbian experience you are attracted to women, but you might not be a lesbian. If you're still attracted to men you're bi.

ANSWER:
Well if you like a girl or a boy more than you r friends than you are very likely to be gay or lesbian. if you like a boy and a girl than you are probably bi. but don't worry cause everybody are what they are.

ANSWER:
If you find that you are attracted to both males and females in a sexual/romantic way, you are probably bisexual. If you are just as comfortable being in a relationship (or imagining being in a relationship) with a female as you are when in a relationship (or imagining...) with a male, you are probably bisexual.
Your sexuality is something that can only be determined by you, yourself. However, some people never find a label that truly fits them. You may find that neither of the terms "bisexual," or "lesbian" really fits you, & it's okay if it they do not. Not everyone can be categorized so easily.

ANSWER:
There is no real answer to that! I'm sorry to say. I will tell you a bit about how I found out, maybe that will help.
I'm a girl of course. Around my 4th grade year, I was noticing that I had a tendency to dress in male clothing. And I had a lot of thoughts about kissing some of my friends that were female. I didn't understand at that point.
Before 8th grade a girl asked me out, at first we were just joking, before I knew it we both took it seriously. I thought liking girls was just a phase that I would pass out of. But, I notice that seeing a female not in clothing drove me wild.
And kissing them was so pleasing, that I came to terms that I was bisexual. I still like guys, but I've liked girls for about more than 8 years now. I couldn't be any happier.
Hope this helps. If you don't know what your feeling, try something with a girl, if you enjoy it and continue to enjoy it... then most likely you are bisexual or lesbian. but if you find that you don't like guys anymore, or you find that you still like guys, that is just how it goes. Be strong, for if you are bisexual or lesbian, you might be in for a rough life.
Bi is when you are interested and act with both sexes. Lesbian is when your interest and actions are only is women.

ANSWER:
When you are in love with another woman.

ANSWER:
If you can get similarly exited by both males and females you are Bi if you are not turned on or sexually attracted by women then you are lesbian. However it is all a matter of degrees, the sexual act in itself is enjoyable and to enjoy it with some one else of either sex need have nothing to do with your sexual orientation.
If you are attracted to other women and have strong 'love' bonds and feelings towards them, you might be a lesbian. To find out for sure, have a relationship with another woman and then you'll know.

ANSWER:
Most women who are lesbians (and most gay men) say they know something is "up" between the ages of 7-10.
While most straight teens go through normal "crushes" on the same sex, these feelings usually fade, if they occur at all. However, for a gay person, these feelings usually grow stronger and any initial feelings of attraction to the opposite sex fade, unless this person is bisexual.
Most importantly, being gay or lesbian is not merely about wanting to have sex with the same sex--straight women sometimes have flings with other women, and gay people often have sex with the opposite sex. While physical attraction is a strong component, most gays, and especially lesbians, find an emotional attraction that is equally strong, if not stronger.
If you're over 21, the test would be this: If you are a woman who fantasizes about being with another woman--do you also want to wake up with her in the morning, have coffee and go on a long walk through the park holding hands? If not, you're probably not a lesbian.
Only you know if you are gay or not. No one else can answer that.

Look into your heart. Is this how you feel ? Do you feel like you are gay? Have you ever experimented? Time will tell.

Lesbian? What kind of a Lesbian?

Now in real life, when you say you're a lesbian it doesn't mean that you have to wear like what men wears... a woman in high heels, lipsitck and skirts can be a lesbian. When we say Lesbians that mean you are attracted to women, no matter how they dress up as long they are women. As I've noticed here in the Philippines, if you're a lesbian you have to wear baggy jeans, big shirt or men's clothing... nope. It's not necessary like that. Those women who wear those are called Butch or Dykes... still in the group of being lesbians. Women who wears just jeans, fit shirts, sneakers, black nail polishes are called Soft-Butch. Women who wears skirts, heels, make ups are called femmes, and all of these categories are Lesbians....


1. Butch / Dykes : These are lesbians that wears jeans, shirts, caps and pop-ups. They naturally act like men, talk like men and never have a touch of their feminine side. These kind of lesbians are always attracted to femmes.


2. Soft butch : These are lesbians who wear skinny jeans or jeans, fit shirt, sneakers, slippers, sling bags, eyeliner, lip gloss and sometimes nail polish in short nails. They can be attracted to Butch / Dykes, femmes and even soft butch like them.


3. Femmes : These are lesbians who wear heels, skirts, make ups, nail polish in long nails, acts very poised and never will can you figure out if they are lesbian. These are women who normally gets attracted to butch / dykes and even sometimes femmes like them.


4. Gay : A lesbian who can be both ways at times. A soft butch or Femme. Normally is attracted to Butch / dyke and Soft Butch. They can wear either the soft butch style or the femme style.




When we say Lesbian.... there is a lot to it. So, which one are you? I am gay... so gay and I'm proud of it.

My kind of WOMEN.....

As requested by a "frequent - friend" reader... (lol) this are the answers to your questions... hope it will answer your questionsssssss =)

I like it both ways. Meaning I am attracted to soft butch and butch... I have nothing against dykes and femmes... But I really don't know why I always get so attracted to these kind of women.... I believe because I kind of see myself through them and it makes me comfortable with people like them...

Here are some photos that will give you a sort of an idea of the women i normally date and get so attracted to...

So there you have it.... yup these are my types.
A lot of people are kind of confused when it comes to being a Lesbian. They make it so complicated, don't really know why. I mean for a fact when you say your a tomboy, that does not mean that you have to wear like men do or act like men do.... it's being expressive of the real you.

AND THIS IS SO ME =) don't get me wrong... I also wear sunday dresses, short skirts and all.... but you will see me normally on clothes such as this.....=)

Thanks for reading... and keep on reading!!! PEACE!

The Rainbow (LGBT's pride) Flag... it's meaning

Now, if you're really a Lesbian, well you must know the meanings of each color of our symbol flag... the rainbow flag we call it... and the LGBT? Lesbian Gay Bisexual and Transgender..... A head start for newbies...

Growing up in Canada gave me all the insight of the 3rd community. And am glad to be able to share it down south in the Philippines... for some, it is easier for them to say I am Lesbian, but before you say it you must know the truth about being a Lesbian.... not because u like a girl that doesn't mean you are a Les already... ooohh there is so much to experience before you can finally say you are a Les...

Well here are the meanings of our PRIDE.

Colors of the Rainbow Flag:
The original flag had eight stripes from top to bottom: pink (sexuality), red (life), orange (healing), yellow (sunlight), green (nature), turquoise (magic), indigo/blue (serenity), and violet (spirit). Within a year, the flag had shed two of its stripes—pink and violet. According to Gilbert, they "ran out of pink dye." The violet stripe was later taken out to create an even number of stripes on the flag.Since, many variations of the flag have been created. For instance, a black stripe is added to some symbolizing those lost to AIDS. There are also variations to represent bisexual people, bears and others.