ChoNa1

Right.... a lot of people telling me that I am such a snob. well, that is totally untrue! Infact I am so friendly and out going, i can immidiately make friends with people, men or women, gays or straight. I am not an eccentric person.
I am Lesbian, that's true, I have 9 tattoos, true too, I have tongue and brow pierce, true, I am alcoholic, mmm yah you can say that too, I smoke, yes that too - but even though with all that, that doesn't make me a bad person, that doesn't make me different from others. eventhough I grew up abroad, I still have the heart of a pinay, I even like stying here for good now,
specially that I have gathered new sets of good friends....

During boring weekends, I enjoy myslef drinking, billiards and watching good pinoy bands!!! I used to have a Music entertainment - Purple Revenge entertainment- that catered Heavy Metal music.



To some, people address me as hardcore person because of the things that I like, enjoy and do... true too.
I like to hang around with people who are trully down to earth, friendly and true to them selves.




I love Redhorse, Bacardi, Jack Daniels, Jose Cuervo, emperador and Carlo rossi. i love Marlboro red and carribean tobaccos. I like to sit in the patio drinking tea in the morning and sitting by the garage under the heat of the sun.
I don't go to mass - BUT I have faith in the Lord and visit Sto. Rosario church every morning before heading for work. I have a good job, a 5 yr old son and credit card to spend my what ever I wish for and have my mother send me money to pay for it - - - joke!!!! I am living a happy and satisfied life with respect on top of my head, with love and assurance to the people surrounding me. I am very grateful of what I become and what I have in my life. So what else could I ask for? - - - - more credit cards!!!!

The Right Way.....

"Making love" that would be the first thing that pops in most straight people's mind. A lot of straight couples comes up to me asking me this question - How do you make love with her? I guarantee, it's no difference as being straight couples making love. I may say that the passion I have with women when I make love is intense.

I always make sure that I do it the right way... meaning, with love, tenderness and of course the satisfaction I give...

Making love-in so many ways, could be wild or gentle. If I truly love the person, I would rather prefer to caress her body gently than scratching her soft skin. I would rather stroke her hair softly than pulling it in different directions. I would rather kiss her passionately than just licking her anywhere.

To me, Making love is one of the greatest creation that anybody can enjoy, regardless of who they are. If you do it the right way, surely you will get the ultimate making love score ever.

There is no such thing as "how do you do it, you're both women or men?" question. making love is blind, it cannot see, but it can feel. The feeling of making love is important. We are all human beings with the rights to express our sexual desires.....

Lesbian Sacred Sexuality

"With vibrant double kiss, our words of sex and spiritualityare always lip to lip : ecstasy, communion, surrender, passion,mystery, devotion. As St Theresa said, "All the way to heavenis heaven." In the poetic text of Lesbian Sacred Sexuality, fleshplumes, the interior castle glistens. Buddha women enkindlethe breath within the breath, warming spine wine, mandalaeyes penetrate. Here, Lesbian camera subjects, unlikemodels, open their soft core, teaching how the mind tellsstories, how the body forgives. One question: Just where isthis dark room? A fragrantcedar forest where lightening struck a rushing mountainstream, releasing the essence of heavenly fire? To heranointments of light, I offer salty incense as valleys overflow.

GAY MARRIAGE... IN THE PHILIPPINES

Baguio City -- Who wore the bridal gown? Neither spouse. The couples were in their best barong tagalog as they march down the isle.
After six years nurturing their love, David and Alex finally exchanged wedding vows and rings as their family and friends stood witness to Baguio’s first same-sex wedding in a closed door ceremony held here last Monday.
David, a cultural arts worker, and Alex, a business consultant, formalized their relationship in a holy union officiated by Fr. Richard Mickley, founder of the Order of St. Aelred and known to have officiated same-sex marriages elsewhere in the country. The couple met in Manila six years ago and fell in love. They later moved to Baguio and became successful in their respective fields.
Two adult ring bearers and a lesbian partner carried their "wedding veil" that was actually a rainbow flag, the colorful international symbol of gay and lesbian pride.
"My partner and I don’t do role playing," said David. "We are both gay men and we’re taking pride in our decision to marry even if current laws won’t recognize this basic human right. But despite the inequality, a growing number of gay people are entering into relationships and establishing their own families without state-sponsored legislation."
He added that unlike holy matrimony, a "holy union" doesn’t require legal documents. People enter holy union as a holy sacrament that seeks divine blessings for the love they share to one another.
Proponents of same-sex marriage in the Philippines Congress have been pushing for the legislation of equal right for gays and lesbians but have always encountered violent opposition from conservatives, particularly the Catholic church, who shamelessly pervert the unconditional love of God by casting stones at those they declare more sinful than themselves.
The pre-dominantly Catholic population of the Philippines is traditionally tolerant and accepting of gays within the family structure. Many well-known gays hold visible and high positions in government and the private sector.
In 1994, the Progressive Organization of Gays in the Philippines (ProGay) led the first gay and lesbian pride march in the country. Since then, Filipino homosexuals have marched in an annual public pride parade every June and a number of grassroots GLBT groups have lobbied the government for official recognition of their basic human rights.

LESBIAN BRAIN

The brains of lesbian women respond to sexual hormones differently from heterosexual women, according to a new analysis.The lesbians' brains reacted somewhat like those of straight men. It's a finding that adds weight to the idea that homosexuality has a physical underpinning and is not learned behavior.

Similarities between the response of lesbians and straight men were not as strong as between homosexual men and straight women.It shows sexual orientation may very well have a different basis between men and women ... this is not just a mirror image situation.

The important thing is to be open to the likely situation that there are biological factors that contribute to sexual orientation.

What do you think? Do lesbians have more in common with straight men or with other women? Add your comments below.

I AM WHAT I AM

I started to appreciate the same sex when I was in my elementary years. I thought It was quit odd because I was a bit uncomfortable about it. My family (clan) has some history of having Lesbian members.
I was really attracted to her, she was (is still) a butch. Her name was Bing. Every time I sit in class with her, I always could not stop looking in her direction. And every time our eyes met, I could not hide my red face. I liked the feeling.
Eventually as years passed, my family and I decided to relocate. I left the Philippines when I was only 10 yrs old. With in those many years, I never had thought about what I felt with the same sex, maybe because I was surrounded with boys and femmes in school and was very busy with school work and adjusting to the new environment. It was then with in the 11yrs in Bahrain I got married. I was 21 and had a baby boy and graduated college.
After 11yrs in Bahrain, my family and I relocated again. My husband and I were separated because of work. He was based in Mosul, Iraq while I stayed in Canada with my parents and my little son. With in 4 years my relationship with my husband was not good. I got hooked up with some girls here and there. So I decided to work with DHL so I can be based in Iraq to be with him. And there I was, Baghdad, Iraq. It did not help.
I was 26 when I got back in the Philippines to be legally separated. And I was.
During my stay in the Philippines I met someone of the same sex who literally moved in with me. I then made a comparison. Men can be sometimes clueless. It was that time I realized I was more comfortable with women. she was a butch.
2006 was a disaster year for me. It was the year my x-husband knew about my Lesbian relationships back in Canada, it was also the year I finally told my parents about me because they found out a woman was living in with me. it was that year i lost hundreds of thousands because of my Atty. and it was that year that i had my worst night mare with her. It was not good. My relationship with her did not last that long. I get on with my life and she did too. I had relationships with men... 2 to be exact and it never lasted. I decided to stay away from any relationships.... but it was not successful. I got very attracted to WOMEN.... of any sort. Dykes, Butch or Femmes.... I had been with them non stop. It didn't bother me what people say since my parents knew already of what I've become and they still love me for that.
2007, it wasn't such a bad year. It was the year that I got accepted in my first job in the Philippines, it was where I met knew friends at work, It was the year I met someone really special and it was the year I accepted myself as a Lesbian. And most of all, It was the year my parents, relatives and friends accepted who I am.
Finally 2008!!!! I really don't know what would go wrong this year. Maybe CASH!!!!! like other normal people do.... but I feel happy, comfortable, proud and sincere of who I become.
I realized why would I be ashamed of it? People on drugs are supposed to be the ones to be ashamed, people in denial, hypocrites and God knows who else.
I Love women, I Love my son, I Love the Lord, I Love my friends, I Love my family, I Love my life. this is what I have and this is who I am. All we need to do is know ourselves and accept it. Life is like a book with many chapters in it. Don't be a critic and don't make a grin after you read this.

ALICIA KEYS, A LES TOO!

ALICIA KEYS IS REALLY MAKING THE ROUNDS. ALL THE LESBIANS OF THE WORLD (QUEEN, MISSY, MC LYTE) SHOULD BE REAL PROUD. MISS THING LOOKS ABSOLUTELY FABULOUS IN THIS PICTURE.
Alicia Keys says she looked “rough around the edges.” But now that’s all changed. BUTCH LESBIANS ALWAYS LOOK ROUGH!

WHAT ABOUT LIPSTICK LESBIANS?

A lipstick lesbian is a slang term for a stereotypically feminine lesbian who is attracted to other feminine women, rather than a lesbian who is attracted to more masculine women, such as in a "butch and femme"-type relationship. It is also used to describe a homosexual (or bisexual) woman who exhibits feminine gender attributes, such as wearing make-up (thus, lipstick), wearing dresses or skirts, having a love of shopping, and perhaps having other characteristics associated with feminine women. In mainstream American films, lesbians are often portrayed according to the lipstick lesbian stereotype to be both politically safer and more sexually attractive to male viewers. A good example is Showtime's television series The L Word, which presents most of its major lesbian characters in this way. Most lesbians in mainstream pornography are also portrayed in this way.
The term was used in San Francisco at least as far back as the 1980s. In 1982, Priscilla Rhoades, a journalist with the gay newspaper The Sentinel, wrote a feature story on "Lesbians for Lipstick." The term is thought to have emerged in wide usage during the early 1990s. A 1997 episode of the television show Ellen widely publicized the phrase. In the show, Ellen DeGeneres's character, asked by her parents whether a certain woman is a "dipstick lesbian," explains that the term is "lipstick lesbian," and comments that "I would be a chapstick lesbian."
In 1999, columnist Mark Steyn called actress Anne Heche, who was dating DeGeneres at the time, "the world's most famous lipstick lesbian." [1]
A distinction is sometimes drawn between the phrases "lipstick lesbian" and "chapstick lesbian" and the older phrases butch and femme by suggesting that the former phrases simply refer to appearance, whereas the latter imply mutual attraction of the two types. "Chapstick lesbians" are often considered soft butch.
The term has also been reinterpreted as a derogatory reference to feigned lesbianism — implying that it is as easy as lipstick to add or remove.
An alternate term for "lipstick lesbian" is "doily dyke."

ARE YOU A CHAPSTICK LESBIAN?

A soft butch — also known as a chapstick lesbian — is a woman who exhibits some stereotypical butch lesbian traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians. These traits may or may not include short hair, clothing that was designed for men, and masculine mannerisms and behaviors. Soft butches generally appear androgynous, rather than adhering to strictly feminine or masculine norms. In the spectrum of gender expression among lesbians, a soft butch lies closer to a butch lesbian than to a lipstick lesbian.
This type of behaviour is also considered socially acceptable of alternate gender roles within the lesbian community. Whereas it is sometimes considered a betrayal of the lesbian community to be "too feminine" or "too masculine", the soft butch is an acceptable in-between state that generally receives greater acceptance.

BUTCH and FEMME TODAY

Many young people today (in the homosexual community) eschew butch or femme classifications, believing that they are inadequate to describe an individual, or that labels are limiting in and of themselves. Some people within the queer community have tailored the common labels to be more descriptive, such as "soft stud," "hard butch," "gym queen," or "tomboy femme." Comedian Elvira Kurt contributed the term "fellagirly" as a description for queer females who are not strictly either femme or butch, but a combination.
Lesbians and genderqueers who identify as Butch or Femme have experienced a renaissance as the Internet has brought the butch-femme community together. To be either butch or femme challenges traditional gender roles and expectations about appropriate gender presentation and desire, and expands the concept of what it means to be female. Some femme men, femme women, and butch women regard themselves thus as genderqueer for that reason, but many others do not. Moreover, some genderqueer people identify their gender primarily as butch or femme, rather than man or woman.
It is also important to note that those who identify as butch and femme today often use the words to define their presentation and gender identity rather than strictly the role they play in a relationship, and that not all butches are attracted exclusively to femmes and not all femmes are exclusively attracted to butches, although this was traditionally the norm.

FYI on Lesbians

Science > Science Dictionary

lesbian
A homosexual woman.

Words > Dictionary

lesbian(lĕz'bē-ən)
A woman whose sexual orientation is to women.adj.
Of, relating to, or being a lesbian. See Usage Note at gay.
[From the putative homosexuality of Sappho, lyric poet of Lesbos.]

Words > Thesaurus

lesbian adjective
Of, relating to, or having a sexual orientation to members of one's own sex: gay,

A lesbian is a woman who is romantically and sexually attracted only to other women. [1][2] Women who are attracted to both women and men are more often referred to as bisexual. An individual's self-identification might not correspond with her behavior, and may be expressed with either, both, or neither of these words.

Public policy
In Western societies, explicit prohibitions on women's homosexual behavior have been markedly weaker than those on men's homosexual behavior.
In the United Kingdom, lesbianism has never been illegal. In contrast, sexual activity between males was not made legal in England and Wales until 1967. It is said that lesbianism was left out of the Criminal Law Amendment Act of 1885 because Queen Victoria did not believe sex between women was possible, but this story may be apocryphal.[3] A 1921 proposal, put forward by Frederick Macquisten MP to criminalize lesbianism was rejected by the House of Lords; during the debate, Lord Birkenhead, the then Lord Chancellor argued that 999 women out of a thousand had "never even heard a whisper of these practices."[4] In 1928, the lesbian novel The Well of Loneliness was banned for obscenity in a highly publicized trial, not for any explicit sexual content but because it made an argument for acceptance.[5] Meanwhile other, less political novels with lesbian themes continued to circulate freely.[6]

Sexual activity between women is as diverse as sex between heterosexuals or gay men. Some women in same-sex relationships do not identify as lesbian, but as bisexual, queer, or another label. As with any interpersonal activity, sexual expression depends on the context of the relationship.

Media depictions
Lesbians often attract media attention, particularly in relation to feminism, love and sexual relationships, marriage and parenting. Some writers have asserted this trend can lead to exploitive and unjustified plot devices.[7]

Vibrating Tongue Rings - The Lix

JJK Industries has released a line of oral vibrators for pierced tongues. The Lix novelty vibrating tongue rings were created for the growing population of people with pierced tongues, and everyone’s love for oral pleasures.
“Everyone knows tongue rings enhance oral bliss. So we created the Lix vibrating tongue ring. Lix turns any ordinary pierced tongue into a vibrating, mind-blowing joy ride!” said Amy French, JJK Industries Customer Service Manager. The Lix novelty vibrating tongue rings were created for the growing population of people with pierced tongues, and everyone’s love for oral pleasures. (lixvibrator)

http://www.trendhunter.com/trends/new-vibrating-tongue-ring-called-lix

WELL KNOWN SHANE - L word

Ever since the L word series came out in television, Shane was and is the favorite "need to watch".

From her clothes, make up, accessories and the catch!

True, she is a heart throb person... my undies would fall if she just asked me for a light for her ziggys.

But anyway, click on the picture to see what make up accessories she uses, maybe you might get hold of some and look like her.... and if you do, let me know!!! ***wink***

CONFUSED or NO USE ( ? )

Little girl staring at four women while her mother was reading the news paper in the jeepney (public transportation). The lady - shall we call her "A" coughed, sighed and went back fiddling around her mobile phone. Lady "B" coughed too... looked at her watch and stared to the other person in front of her. Lady "C" coughed as well, took her money and paid. While Lady "D" sits and tried to relax waiting to reach her destination.
The little girl can't stopped noticing the kind of clothes their wearing. Almost exactly the same. 2 of the ladies wore trashed jeans and the other 2 wore light textiled shorts. (sort of purontong) Their tops were sort of the same too. 2 wore a little tight shirts and the other 2 wore just a shirt that fits them.
But, while the little girls was on her deep observation, she noticed each of the 4 ladies had different ways of expressing their selves- meaning, they have different way of looking at their watches, the way the sit etc. The little girl also notices that Lady "A" was constantly looking at Lady "C" and vice versa. While Lady "B" was staring at some one in front of her and Lady "D" staring at Lady "B".
Little girl could not understand what was going on.... she mumbles to herself: " If Lady "A" was staring at Lady "C" and vice versa, why is it that Lady "B" was staring at the man in front of her since Lady "D" is staring at her?????????????
Little girl of age 9 carefully observed every little action each 4 made.
Okay, here's the catch, if you were that little girl who saw every little move those 4 ladies made, what would you think? Would you make a conclusion or give benefit of the doubt or won't bother............. if you consider yourself from a 3rd community, you know what it is.
This will be continued.... they still have a long way to go.

Am I Just Envy or What?

okay here goes.. every time i look at photographs of cute cute and happy couples together (Lesbians) i suddenly stare at those photographs and my mind starts to wonder. why is it that every time i have a chance to see photographs of such, why do i always feel my stomach aching and having deep breaths!!!
i've been in a good relationship twice too many, most of it were of happy memories...i do have cute happy photographs of my X's too. But looking at other's photographs is different for me. i always want to be in that photograph, i want to experience what they feel.
is that normal? i always ask my self that.
i used to cheat on my ex-girlfirend because of this foolish question. i see another women and take photos of her.. silly ha? then compare them with my girlfriends photos... and i won't stop until i found contentment on any of the photographs taken. i know i was stupid and wrong, so wrong that i lost someone who cared about me so much.
i stopped that habbit for a while now, and glad that i did. but, eventually i still have that stomach aches and deep breaths every time i see photographs, not just a photograph but a photograph of happy lesbian couple. i've been in that road before and i am still now. foolish of me to feel like this. i think that every time i see different photographs of couples, i see different emotional figure of the couple taken, and each emotional figure makes me want to feel it too.... WHAT????? I have lots of emotions... but why want the others?
or maybe, i need to be content... i am content ***thinking*** i need to teach myself to be satisfied.... happy and thankful.
whatever it is, i still do have those stomach aches and deep breaths every time i see happy lesbian couples.... or perhaps i feel happy for them.... maybe or i don't know!

Lindsay's into it as well!!!!

Apparently Lindsay is spending her time at Promises trying to rehab her relationship with Samantha Ronson as much as she’s dealing with her drug problem, but hopefully she’s doing better with the drugs …
According to Star magazine, Lindsay and SamRo have been sending extremely charged MySpace and text messages back and forth ever since Lindsay checked into rehab. “Babe, if I don’t have you in my life then I should just go die,” wrote Lindsay one night. “Your [sic] all I have to live for, babe. I want to marry you and have children with you. I need you to live!”
Wrote Samantha: “You still have me. I’m here for you. With you.” Although Samantha was on-hand to spin the records at Lindsay’s recent 21st birthday party in Malibu, she has reportedly been encouraging Lindsay to find a partner who can help her stay sober, as Samantha struggles with drug problems of her own. Lindsay gets upset each time Samantha tries to end things.
“I love you,” said Lindsay. “You love me. Why don’t we fuck and make a family … Babe, don’t leave me like this I FUCKING LOVE YOU!”
Lindsay sends Samantha a “virtual kiss” each night from rehab. “Go to bed babe,” she writes. “I love you – [signed] Lindsay Ronson.”
Samantha’s part of the reason Lindsay’s even in rehab. They met on the club circuit three years ago, and their relationship quickly became more than just a friendship, and the Memorial Day weekend drunken car crash Lindsay was involved in came as she was having a drunk and loaded argument with Samantha, supposedly because Lindsay refused to call Samantha her girlfriend.

LOVE IS NEVER WRONG

PURPLE... a Lesbian color?

The color purple (or, more accurately, lavender) became popularized as a symbol for pride in the late 1960s - a frequent post-Stonewall catchword for the gay community was “Purple Power”.
Purple as a gay / lesbian color was pushed into pop-culture in 1999 by Rev. Jerry Falwell and his kinky Tinky Winky theory. Falwell said that Tinky Winky, the TV Teletubby from Itsy Bitsy Entertainment and PBS, is in all likelihood gay.
Why? Like Barney, Tinky Winky is purple. Tinky Winky carries a bag. Tinky Winky has a triangular antenna on his head. Purple, the gay pride color, is a pretty good tip-off. The so-called magic bag? A purse, and you know what that means. But the triangular antenna is the clincher. A big gay pride signal.
Whenever I see someone wearing a triangular antenna on his head, the first thing I always think is: gay. Or at least very happy.

OUR SYMBOLS

Entwined rings of the sexes depict mixing of the different sexual (human) beings. It is an illustration of the natural mixing of the sexes, male with male, female with female and male with female. It also depicts male-male-female and female-female-male mixing clearly symbolizing coupling and interrelations of all the sexes in all possible combinations. This symbol captures the freedom of sexual will or orientation.

For many years, bisexuals were left out of both heterosexual and homosexual society. Being neither lesbian/gay or straight, they had no symbols of their own for pride in being who they are. So, the overlapping triangles were created as a symbol of pride in being bisexual. This is (as far as I know) the most commonly used and accepted bisexual pride symbol. It should be noted that there have been many other variations on the use of a triangle as a pride symbol. Some of the variations include the rainbow triangle and the lavender triangle. Other triangles show pride in being lgbt AND being of a particular race or culture.

The Gender Symbols
The gender symbols were originally common astrological signs coming from Roman times. The interlocking male symbols have been used since the 1970's as a symbol of pride for gay men. The interlocking female symbols are used as a lesbian pride symbol. Some feminists also use the double female symbol (one ring with two crosses) as a symbol of sisterhood among women. Trans persons sometimes use a symbol created by one ring, one cross, and one arrow. Other times this symbol is used to show that a person enjoys bending the gender lines in any way or that they understand and support the blurring of the strict gender boundaries.

FRIENDS... they are important....

Yah, I have few, but they are all with quality.... I used to have so many before *sigh* but then in times when I am down they are all gone!!! What did I do wrong? But I stopped searching for the answer, and these wonderful people *smiles* you see in the pictures found me!!!! they make me laugh, they make me criticise *hehehehe* and they make me realize too. they taught me things that I never knew before, they make me wonder at times and they put my mind in peace. It was hard for me once to have these kinds of friends. I used to shower my old friends*grin* with money just so to keep them, but I then realized it was not the answer. The answer was... these new friends I have... regardless of their belief, color, gender, status or what so ever... I love them. And I am glad *clapping* to have them in my life.

Im totally out of my closet...

20008!!!! After 27 yrs of my life, I came to realize how I enjoy looking at a woman's beauty.... of any sort.....
mmm... yah. I was once married got a 5 yr old son. I love men. *errrrrrrr* I was so attracted to them that I can't stop my self but to drool over them.
But... when this Lady (back when I was in Canada) named Jessica, came up to me and said " do u have any idea where I can find the admin office?" I stared at her and started noticing how lovely her mouth was, *yah yah it was a mouth that I was not able to stop looking at* then it was the beginning of my search for what we call WHAT DO I REALLY WANT thigy.....
Jesse *thats what I call her* and I we were school mates, lunch mates, smikong mates, drinking mates until we were literally MATES... *wink* I got scared at first. I didn't know what, whay or how!!!!
I admire or shall I say love the way she talks, walks and tie her hair... then the KISS. From that moment I had my first SAME-SEX Kiss.... I liked it. So much.
I got devorced 2 years after that!!!! But in between those time, I had been hooked up with women. It was women every where that I see... not Men anymore... *eeeerrr yah* Dykes, Soft Butch or Femme... I just love them. It was hard for me to tell that to my Parents...friends.... it was not that accepted to the society yet. It was hard for me to give public affection to my partner... but somehow managed to do so at times!!!!
Am I ashame????????? NOPE. I'd rather show what I really am rather than keep it inside with confused mind and stressed emotions.
This is what I feel. and if you feel it... try it. give it a chance to know the real you. This is 2008 and what else could go wrong?!