Sunday, March 28, 2010

Lesbian? What kind of a Lesbian?

Now in real life, when you say you're a lesbian it doesn't mean that you have to wear like what men wears... a woman in high heels, lipsitck and skirts can be a lesbian. When we say Lesbians that mean you are attracted to women, no matter how they dress up as long they are women. As I've noticed here in the Philippines, if you're a lesbian you have to wear baggy jeans, big shirt or men's clothing... nope. It's not necessary like that. Those women who wear those are called Butch or Dykes... still in the group of being lesbians. Women who wears just jeans, fit shirts, sneakers, black nail polishes are called Soft-Butch. Women who wears skirts, heels, make ups are called femmes, and all of these categories are Lesbians....


1. Butch / Dykes : These are lesbians that wears jeans, shirts, caps and pop-ups. They naturally act like men, talk like men and never have a touch of their feminine side. These kind of lesbians are always attracted to femmes.


2. Soft butch : These are lesbians who wear skinny jeans or jeans, fit shirt, sneakers, slippers, sling bags, eyeliner, lip gloss and sometimes nail polish in short nails. They can be attracted to Butch / Dykes, femmes and even soft butch like them.


3. Femmes : These are lesbians who wear heels, skirts, make ups, nail polish in long nails, acts very poised and never will can you figure out if they are lesbian. These are women who normally gets attracted to butch / dykes and even sometimes femmes like them.


4. Gay : A lesbian who can be both ways at times. A soft butch or Femme. Normally is attracted to Butch / dyke and Soft Butch. They can wear either the soft butch style or the femme style.




When we say Lesbian.... there is a lot to it. So, which one are you? I am gay... so gay and I'm proud of it.

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